So, I talked a little bit before about Discipline and how I would handle, in one respect at least, punishments.
I wanted to return to this topic because it is an important aspect of BDSM – it’s even part of the acronym. I certainly did not want to go very long without sharing some of my thoughts on Discipline, since my last discussion had focused on punishment so much.
In BDSM, what is Discipline?
Simply put, it is training. When we talk about training a submissive or training a slave, we are talking about Discipline. It encompasses all the rules that you set in place, the different protocols of your dynamic, and then what you use, positive and negative, to reinforce those protocols.
When I have a submissive, I plan to have a very simple protocol to begin a session.
- When she arrives, I will ask her if she has anything she needs to discuss before we begin.
- If she does not, or once any discussions are complete, I will ask her if she submits to me.
- If she says yes, then she will kneel in a submissive posture. If she has a collar, I will place her collar on her. When I am ready for her to stand, I will bid her to do so, and we will go on to whatever activities will be taking place that day.
And I know right now that I just made someone blink their eyes in confusion, because I said something that may seem a little odd about collaring. I will get back to it in a moment. Continue reading